Friday, April 24, 2015
Friday, April 17, 2015
The Givers
Last Saturday, I bought some little
foil-wrapped Easter chicks of Lindt chocolate and gave them, with cards, to
folks who are so kind to us here. I thought it was a small gift for their
always graciousness in answering our ignorant questions, interrupting their
work in their shop. I was feeling a bit left out of family Easter gatherings as
we had no home to go to during the weekend, other than our own, so I tried to
think what I could do for someone else. Then Tuesday, I was talking with Ms. S.
and asked if she would accept if I invited her to my flat for tea. She said,
“Of course”!–if it was on her day off. She arrived with her hands full of
several kinds of bread, some coconut pastries, and samples of the smoked fish,
salted fish, and sardines that most families ate together on Monday. So much
for trying to give something away, I thought!
| A view from the balcony where I study with Ms. H. |
Today, I met with Ms. H to have
another Arabic lesson in the clubhouse by the seashore. I took with me some fresh apple crisp that I
had made this morning—small payment for her always gracious “I’m with you” when
I ask if she has time for another lesson, not to speak of her paying a driver
to pick me up, tipping the gate keeper, buying me tea with a gorgeous view,
etc. She says her greatest happiness is
to give things away and to be with people that she likes being with. She
doesn’t know how much she has contributed to MY sense of well-being here. We
laugh a lot as I struggle over weird pronunciations and we talk about our
lives. As if these gifts were not enough, she presented me today with a lovely
little box decorated with traditional Egyptian figures playing musical stringed
instruments.
In the evening, as I was trying to
open the elevator door, our gatekeeper, who had just
returned from vacation in
Upper Egypt, motioned for me to wait. He went into another room and produced
from a paper bag some little balls of baked fermented grain balls and a lovely
round loaf of flat bread called Al-shamsi, or sun bread, that is a type of
sourdough bread made primarily in the villages and rural areas south of here. I
had never seen it here. I received that bread as though it were bread from
heaven, something quite precious that was made by his wife who lives many hours
away, whom he sees only on rare holidays. He is considered a poor man, yet is
so generous, many times offering to share things like a few strawberries or
other bits of food he may be eating when we pass through the hallway. I occasionally
have given him things to eat also, but nothing I consider so precious.
All of these acts of kindness as
well as the gifts given by our students—the baby seahorse plucked from the canal wall, dried and varnished, made into a key chain; chocolate Easter bunnies
brought all the way from Canada; a home-made chocolate cake, offers for help
with travel plans, and other sweet gestures have been downright humbling to me.
I hope that if I haven’t mastered Arabic here, at least I will not forget to take
with me the lessons on generosity that have been shown us here.
Tuesday, April 14, 2015
"Smelling the Breeze"
All of Egypt was celebrating something this past long weekend. First came the Easter services, followed by Sham el-Nessim (explained later).There were all day liturgical services on Friday. Thursday through Saturday, black draperies with the symbolic Coptic cross were found throughout the churches.
Then on Saturday night from 8:00 to 11:30, Coptic Christians gathered for a mass to end the long lenten season and celebrate the resurrection of Jesus. Here, a procession of all the men and cherubic boys and youth serving at the altar in "our" cathedral make a procession around the church following a picture icon of Jesus on the cross which folks on the sides reached out to touch as it passed. After this service, we were again invited to dine with the bishop, the priests, the nuns and orphans and finally retired at 2:30 a.m.
On Sunday, this church held an all-day "fair" with entertainment for youth and a score of adorable children. We discovered some amazing ice-cream that we didn't know existed.
Finally, the national holiday known as Sham El-Nessim, or "smelling the breezes" came on Monday. This spring celebration began at least 4,500 years ago in the pharonic age and was a celebration of renewal of life and the beginning of the agricultural growing season. To this day, people everywhere fill the parks and beaches with their colored eggs, scallions, smoked and salted fish called "fiseekh". The tradition of eating this fish comes from the ancient practice of storing and salting fish from the Nile when it flooded and deposited an over abundance of fish on the banks around people's homes before the dams were built. This fish smells and tastes like it was kept for thousands of years claim some of my students who declared I'd go back to the U.S. and never return if I tasted it...hmmm.
Here some folks are setting up their cloth "tent" for the day in a nearby park that is usually rather empty. I investigated one large circle of people and found a man and his wife and son performing simple magic tricks with a stick, an egg, a funnel with water, and a drum. Bystanders threw a few coins or bills into the center to show their appreciation.
Not a giant croquet set!
These are the frames for the rows of tents that were then set up the next day by the Mediterranean, as you can see below.
Muslim women in long black skirts take to the water along with everyone else. I met one young lady fully covered, dripping from head to toe, who had just come out of the water and stood there shivering, trying to talk English with me. Her younger brother and his friends then repeated the two lines most children try on us: "What's your name? and Welcome to Port Said" or "how old are you?" It doesn't seem like they ever get much beyond the first day's lesson in English. Their father finally said something to the children and suddenly the boy said to us: "go!" Don't know what that was all about. Did the parent think they had bugged us long enough, or was there some other reason? One of my students said some Egyptians are afraid of everything and everyone. So many questions...
In the far end of the beach, we meet the walking innertubes. Here and there, horses would gallop past us with young fellows bending into the wind, enjoying the ride. Some folks were flying kites with bright colors and long streamers. It was a truly gorgeous 70-degree day to smell the breezes.
Friday, April 10, 2015
Blessing of the Waters*
By His Word
he gathered the waters
to one source and made boundaries for it;
he weighed the water
with his hands
and made springs into rivers;
he watered the earth by
the rising of the rivers.
As the rain comes down
and brings forth seed,
So shall His Word be.
It shall not return to Him without fruit.
From the temple courts
come waters
that rise until they
become a river that heals all
creatures that live in
its waters, and they shall not die.
He shall sprinkle clean
water
Bless this water unto
healing
A holy water
A water for the remission of sins
A water of purification
A water for the salvation of body, soul, and
spirit
A gift of purity and love for each other.
You who are thirsty,
come to the water.
*Yesterday, Thursday of this Coptic Easter week, was the
Mass of the blessing of the waters from 8:00 to 12:00. The poem above was
arranged from some of the readings pertaining to water. A central part of this
service is the blessing of water in a large basin by the presiding bishop or priest, who dips his cross into it. This water is then used to “wash the feet” of the parishioners. Actually, the men file to the front and have their
ankles rubbed with a wet wash cloth and wiped with a towel. Another priest
takes a pitcher of the water and uses a brush to apply the water, in the form
of the cross, to the foreheads of the women. Someone who knows me happened to
sit beside me and made sure I had my application of water!
Thursday, April 2, 2015
Why I go to Mass
Why I go to Mass
(a reflection on Good Friday)
“Why do you go,” they ask, “when you do not understand?”
I will tell you why…
Because I see the light falling on the cross rising above my
window
Because they read the Word of God
Because I do not understand clearly
Because I want to understand
Because they chant praises in ancient cadences that I can
learn
Because the ladies veiled in lace extend gentle hands of
peace
Because in their eyes I see the joy or suffering of Jesus
Because we must be like the lovely children they bring in
their arms
Because they share with the stranger the bread that is blessed
and broken
Because when I do not go they say, “we missed you so much.”
Because I am here for a short time but will carry them
always in my heart
Because Jesus is looking at us from the cross, and we bow
our hearts together
Waiting for resurrection.
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